I am duo posting this one...because it is Charlotte and Elise.
This is Rogue, from X-men. She has the "super powers" of absorption. She can touch a human or mutant, and take their memories and their powers, the powers is a temporary thing...but the memories tend to stay with her...
At this point, I know many of you are confused or simply don't care. That's fine, but it just struck me as amusing this morning.
Both Elise and Charlotte have what is known as SPD, Sensory Processing Disorder. It means that their brains struggle to regulate sensory input. It can either register abnormally high or abnormally low. For example, a sound can be normal or even unnoticeable to you and it will be WAY too loud for one of the girls, reducing them to cowering or crying. Or, conversely, they can request louder, Louder, LOUDER to the point you think your eardrums will bleed. Same with food, clothing, smells. It can affect any of the senses, and it can present both as over and under-registry, in the same child and even the situation.
Why the heck even bring Rogue into this story?
Because kids with SPD crave either comforting or input, and will take from you. They will install themselves into your pocket and pet your face in a desperate attempt to self-soothe, or crash into you repeatedly on the couch, or rock themselves in your lap, or pick an example...they suck your senses into themselves to regulate (just like Rogue!)... The goal is to teach themselves how to self-regulate without involving others, but as they learn, their parents and caregivers tend to take the brunt of it...emotionally and physically, sometimes as well.
Those with SPD are often hyper aware of other people's emotions, to the point they cannot separate others' emotions from their own. Although they may isolate themselves due to their physical/sensory ups and downs...and can experience an emotional isolation as well...their super powers of emotional reading, can play in their favor and they can be superlative friends because of it. In the face of societal norms...they can give a base of support than no one else can.
They are the rogues of society. But they can be spectacular heroes, too... So before you judge the kid in jammies in the supermarket, or the parent who would love to trade in their parent card, keep in mind, raising superheroes is a lot of work.
Showing posts with label Elise/Charlotte. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Elise/Charlotte. Show all posts
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Rogue Sensory Applications
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communication,
community,
Elise/Charlotte,
perspective,
SPD
Friday, August 26, 2011
Twinkies
The Top Ten Reasons Elise and Charlotte are Twinkies:
(Definition of Twinkie: A matched set, that are virtually identical!)
1) They look SO much alike. They both have the dark blonde hair and grey-blue eyes I am enchanted by. (So much so, that in my sleep deprived state at Charlotte's 3 month check up, I demanded a chromosomal test done on Charlotte, because I was SURE that she must have Downs, too...they talked me out of it.)
2) They both have the Brushfield Spots in their irises. (See comment on #1!!) This is my very favorite indicator of Downs, but it can show up in typical eyes, as well. Brushfield spots are magical stars that are unique pigmentation in the iris...to me they are almost indicative of being able to see into people, to truly see their hearts...
3) Nothing's ever easy. Medically, attitudinally...you get it.
4) They are both pocket babies. They cannot get close enough. If they could crawl into your skin to be carried about, they totally would.
5) They have friendships with stuffed animals. They do not just have a stuffed animal that they love. They have real relationships. The animals have their own set of ideas, personalities, likes/dislikes, and plans that may or may not coincide with their little owners.
6) They adore animals. Turtles, dogs, cats, skinks...whatever. Completely captivated.
7) Stubborn doesn't begin to describe it.
8) Sensory seeking/defensive. Both crave certain things and will flip out over others... This will impact their happiness, sanity, and general well-being.
9) They get on completely obsessive kicks. They will get a movie or toy or theme and will run it into the ground. Nothing but______ for weeks. This will play out in movies, food, clothes, etc.
10) They adore each other. They really are each other's other half. They bask in each other's company like a cat in a sunbeam.
(Definition of Twinkie: A matched set, that are virtually identical!)
1) They look SO much alike. They both have the dark blonde hair and grey-blue eyes I am enchanted by. (So much so, that in my sleep deprived state at Charlotte's 3 month check up, I demanded a chromosomal test done on Charlotte, because I was SURE that she must have Downs, too...they talked me out of it.)
2) They both have the Brushfield Spots in their irises. (See comment on #1!!) This is my very favorite indicator of Downs, but it can show up in typical eyes, as well. Brushfield spots are magical stars that are unique pigmentation in the iris...to me they are almost indicative of being able to see into people, to truly see their hearts...
3) Nothing's ever easy. Medically, attitudinally...you get it.
4) They are both pocket babies. They cannot get close enough. If they could crawl into your skin to be carried about, they totally would.
5) They have friendships with stuffed animals. They do not just have a stuffed animal that they love. They have real relationships. The animals have their own set of ideas, personalities, likes/dislikes, and plans that may or may not coincide with their little owners.
6) They adore animals. Turtles, dogs, cats, skinks...whatever. Completely captivated.
7) Stubborn doesn't begin to describe it.
8) Sensory seeking/defensive. Both crave certain things and will flip out over others... This will impact their happiness, sanity, and general well-being.
9) They get on completely obsessive kicks. They will get a movie or toy or theme and will run it into the ground. Nothing but______ for weeks. This will play out in movies, food, clothes, etc.
10) They adore each other. They really are each other's other half. They bask in each other's company like a cat in a sunbeam.
Labels:
communication,
Down Syndrome,
Elise/Charlotte,
friends,
play,
playing,
Special Needs
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